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Equality to treat people to form a harmonious interpersonal relationship

Equality to treat people to form a harmonious interpersonal relationship
This is something that happens at a school:
Dongmou home is very rich, always get some fresh stuff off in the class, but only to see not moving.
One day, usually like to play a few students to discuss a new ball, but at a time and get enough money. Dong said. Not just buy a new ball? I got it, but it is a condition that you have to play with me. Several students agreed, but every time he finished the ball, he took the ball back to his home or placed under his own seat. What about going out for a while?. Some students suggested, and he still lying on the table to write a job, even the head is not carried. No, I haven’t finished my homework yet. Some people say. Then give us a play. No, it’s the ball that I bought, and when I want to kick it. When I don’t play, you don’t want to play.
A few days later, the students also bought a ball pool. One day after class, the students went to the playground surrounded by a ball. The Dongmou holding his ball, alone in the classroom, watching the other students in the playground fierce scraping through the window. On the second day, he held the ball to the playground, wanted to play with the students, but the students did not see him, he can only one person holding the ball sitting on the playground.
Dongmou think their own money to buy the ball, can the lost friends regard oneself head and shoulders above others, money is lonely. Through this matter, we should know whether you money or no money, no matter you help others is to help people, personality is equal, who also have no authority superior. Equality to others to help build a harmonious interpersonal relationship.
Equality to treat people to gain respect
A child went to the mountains and shouted at the valley. Hey, hey. The sound just fell, from all directions. Hey, hey. Echo. The mountain agreed, the child is very surprised, and shouted. Who are you?. The mountains also answer. Who are you?. Children shout. Why don’t you tell me. Mountains also said. Why don’t you tell me.
The child became angry and shouted: “I hate you. He knows that the whole world is coming. “I hate you, I hate you, I hate you”
The child was very unhappy, ran home to tell her mother. Mama said. Boy, you go back to the mountains and shout ‘I love you’. The child went to the mountains, according to his mother’s words to do, the results, he was surrounded in. I love thee, I love thee, I love thee. Echo in.
The child smiled.
The truth of this story is also reflected in our human relations in every life is equal, everyone is a dignified. Respect people, treat everyone equally, and you can get respect from others!

Every life is equal

Every life is equal
The word “man”, a flick, a structure near the most simple words, but also one of the most sacred yu. Man, supreme. In the order of nature, all men are equal, regardless of wealth, race, sex, or physical, intellectual, and talent.
“9 – 11” incident has been in the past for many years, the memorial ceremony was held every year. Each year, there is a fixed program – the name of the victims.
Different is that reading has changed, in 2002 a anniversary ceremony is read out by the former mayor of New York and former U. S. president Mrs. Clinton, 2003 are victims of children recite the ditch, 2004 is the victims parents and grandparents reading, 2005 are victims of hand, foot and reading, 2006 flat is reading the relatives of the victims, 2007 is by reading the rescuers. In 2008 and 2009 is by the relatives of the victims of the victims of relatives and friends of the name one by one slowly read.
In these lists, not only include. 11 – 9. The victims of the death of the same day, but also the “9 – 11” after the death of the victims of the incident and the dead.
In every memorial ceremony, read all the victims list is a commemoration ceremony takes the longest time. What is the meaning of it? Why can not choose a few representative figures, the last to a “wait” even if it?
Former president Bush in the first session. 9 – 11- memorial ceremony said today, the whole country to the victims of 11′-‘9. We commemorate each name, each life.. The incumbent president Obama at the eighth memorial ceremony said – let us remember the fear of some past life and xing. We read their names out loud, and put them in our hearts. In the days when they were gone, we had to recall their lives, whether they were men or women, or children, and no matter what color or religion they were……
Man’s life is always the most important. Remember the victims name, no matter he is a commoner or dignitaries; whether they are men and women and children, regardless of whether they are what skin color or religion – – – – – -. The list of people with the name of the mayor, the president, the president’s wife, the victims of their loved ones. Who are eligible to commemorate the victims in the world attention Memorial ceremony.
Every life is equal. Who is equally good at education, who can have a good character.

Respect, magic

Respect, magic
One morning, a signed professor went into an office. At that time, let the people of her is not her academic status register profound respect, but one of her casual movements —
Already over seventy years, she quietly walked in, directed at people smile nodded, readily be put her elegant bag on the ground. A young researchers rushed to pick up her bag, ready to put it on the table, but she stopped.
The old professor understood the confusion and explained in a calm manner. The table is used for office, or a drink of tea, and my bag is brought out from the outside, the East is put on the west, it is inevitable that the disease is on the table is the people of no respect, can only be placed at the foot of the.
Listen to the old professor’s words, the presence of the younger generation is moved and ashamed. They in the heart asked myself, in the usual busy, their ever so carefully for others thought? So, the image of the old professor in the minds of people increasingly large.
Communication with people is what every person will encounter every day, learn to communicate is the children’s required course. There is no doubt that learning to respect is the golden key to friendly relations with others. Book around “respect. This theme, to explore how to cultivate children with nine kinds of good habits.
Why put “respect” in such an important position, because and other habits, many good habits are derived from the respect.
A reporter writing at home, his four year old son asked him to accompany. The reporter too tired child, it will be a magazine cover up, said to his son. First, you will be the top of the world map to fight the whole, dad will accompany you to play. After less than 5 minutes, his son again to drag his hand, said, “Dad, I have a good fight, accompany me to play!.
Reporter is very strange. How can you spell the world map so quickly?. Look, really good. He was very curious to ask his son, “how did you do that?”. The back of the world map is a person’s head. I in turn fight, as long as the people are good, the world map is complete.
The child’s puncture a fallacy with one remark being well, his world is good.
Kong Zi said. To repair the body, the first is the heart. A man is right about the way of life. His way is right.
In March 2005, the United Nations headquarters in New York officially launched. United Nations Education for sustainable development ten year plan (2005-2014). , it is clear that the education of sustainable development is basically about the value of education. And the core of value is respect.
Children and people with their potential values, regardless of their parents, teachers are aware of the child’s communication, the way of communication is always the value of their influence. Single from. Respect. This word, in the traditional culture, is respected in general is the authority figures or elders, and not everyone can get respect. But with the progress of the society, the concept of equality of all people is increasingly popular, the society gives each person the same development opportunity, people gradually realize that everyone should be respected, and therefore more and more attention to each person’s respect. Specifically, in order to “greet”. For example, if you. Identity. “Grade. The values as a guide, the face of authority, or an important person, people often is take the initiative to say hello, behave speech humble in the face of subordinates, and is considered to be of low status, may turn a blind eye, or to be waiting for someone else to greet.Instead, build on “respect. Communication based on this idea, is the equality between people based, abandon the old identity “speech and deportment. The concept of “grade”, which is expressed by the recognition of the dignity of the human dignity.
Everyone has the need to be respected, psychologists believe. Humanity’s deepest desire is to get the respect of others.
Legend has an old man in the local people revered as a saint, a high prestige. A young man was chasing victory, to be respected for the secret can not be. The old man asked him to help everyone in the village — whether it’s poor or rich, whether it’s a disease or health, whether it is stupid or intelligent, and asked him to give the same attention to everyone. After a year later, the old man told the young secret. You want people to respect you, then you have to respect others first.
If there is such a test question. Are you willing to respect others?. Believe that more than 90% of people will fill in the. But is willing to respect others, does not mean you have to respect other people’s habits, as parents are always telling a child want to have a good interpersonal relationship, to be polite to others, Zhang also expressly to “mutual respect”, but told, the provisions of the, does not mean that the child has the habit.
The old professor in front of the old professor why is such a respected and moved on because of her casual action reflects the respect for people’s habits. From this, respect for people’s behavior is everywhere, when respect for the formation of habits, as part of their own life, people also have the ability to respect others.
By the habit of respecting others and having respect for others, this needs to be cultivated. How to cultivate the habit of respecting others is the main content of this book.
Respect reflects the equality between people and the other party’s recognition and recognition, it is the premise of human communication, it will guide parents and children, teachers and students, as well as the interaction between the children and the surrounding people to develop in a healthy direction.
Every parent and teacher want their children or students to be friendly with others, but also know that respect for others is the most important prerequisite for communication. But remember that only for the child to be respected, he can learn to respect others.
Dear parents, teachers, we are faced with the angel of pure child! Learn to respect them, not because they are small and treat them at will. The child as an independent thinking of the people, to the child’s full rights and freedom. This child will be keenly aware of respect for others in the middle school.
When respect is the common habit of parents, teachers and children, we can establish a new type of relationship between parents and children, teachers and students.
When we each have the ability to respect people’s behavior, to respect the personality, people, manners and considerate people, the language of caring people, the relationship between human and natural is smooth, it is natural to achieve the harmonious and beautiful life we pursue.
When he becomes a child’s habit, he (she) must be able to become a popular person, must be able to have a high quality of life.